If we take a closer look at this, you know, people who are prone to feeling lonely have probably tried to connect with someone or engage in conversation at some point, but it doesn't seem to be working for them; they want to explore, meet new people, and all of that, but they still end up feeling lonely. Loneliness is a complicated and confusing experience that may be impacted by a variety of circumstances, that is, it has numerous causes, and some of these typical elements/reasons why some people are lonely include social isolation, a lack of meaningful connections, feeling disconnected from others, and so on.
Despite what is said, there are people who have a large social connection but still experience loneliness. Admittedly, I am that way, and I'm not sure why. Several other potential causes of loneliness include individual circumstances like living alone, a lack of social skills, mental health conditions, physical limitations that prevent social connection, etc.
For instance, when it comes to isolation, I value my alone time more than socializing or going out with friends. I don't know why, but I tend to like it that way. If I engage with someone effectively and efficiently, you are either a close friend or a part of my family. People find it odd and blatantly tell me that I'm some kind of freak who would definitely pass away in my room one day. This act of mine has in some way caused me to lose several friendships. I occasionally tear in my room while thinking about how I am not good enough and other odd things.
You know, negative self-talk may damage a person's self-esteem and make it more difficult for them to build connections with other people. A person may feel they are undeserving of love and connection if they have a poor self-image, which may make it challenging for them to put themselves out there and build connections. And it is because of this that the majority of us are lonely.
However for some people, forming genuine connections with others may be difficult since it calls for openness and the capacity for deep relationships. Many individuals have social anxiety, fear of being rejected, or low self-esteem in social situations, which may make it challenging to start and maintain relationships. They would want to connect or communicate with others, yet they are often too nervous to do so.
However, it is more difficult to establish and sustain long-lasting relationships in today's society.
Technology and social media have produced a false feeling of connection since they do not replace the advantages of face-to-face conversation, and the next thing you know, you're losing bonds with people.
Also, the majority of people's loneliness may be brought on by the fact that they have less free time as a result of their jobs and other commitments, which makes it more difficult to interact and form connections. It's crucial to remember that building relationships with people is an ability that can be acquired and improved through time. Stepping beyond one's comfort zone, looking for chances to meet new people, and being open to sensitivity and genuine conversation may all be necessary for this.
Well, Have a good day.
Return from Loneliness; Finding It Difficult To Make Connections With People[LOH CONTEST #123] to VEE's Web3 Blog
